I have never used an emoticon and I never will.
Back in the days of green screen monitors and five-and-a-half inch floppy disks, someone figured out that a colon, a dash, and a parenthesis looked a little like a happy face (or a sad face, depending which one you used). (It was September 19, 1982 according to Wikipedia.) Since then we have been inundated by hundreds if not thousands of character combinations, seeking to express the varieties of mood and expression the mere words cannot encapsulate. I beg of you – it is time to put an end to all of this.
We have always abbreviated our language, especially in writing. When we were sending messages by morse code over a telegraph wire, that was kind of a no-brainer. (I figure that telegraph has a baud rate of about four bits per second. Not kilo or mega, just bits!) That romantic notion that Elizabethan era lovers sent ridiculously long, passionate love letters to each another is largely a fantasy. Ink and paper were rare and expensive commodities, and literacy was uncommon. If notes were exchanged, they were often of the “c u 2nite” variety. (There were also no toilet paper nor toothpaste, so how romantic could those times have been anyway?)
So why in this day and age of embarrassing plenty are we still using these unnecessary and outdated means of communicating? Sure, there is Twitter with its draconian character cap, but if you really need to express an emotion that badly, you can take a picture of your real face and tweet that. Besides I take it as a challenge to say what I mean within the character limit. It’s part of the fun.
Perhaps part of it is tradition, or just pure laziness, but lately things have gotten out of hand. No longer satisfied with mere smiley faces, we are besieged by an entire font of martini glasses, skulls and piles of poop. Well, I say no more. When you write, imagine you are sending it out on old-fashioned paper. Unless you would cover the same correspondence with gold stars and glitter glue, you should not be using emoticons in your writing. Unless you are a pre-teen girl, you would not cover your work with unicorn stickers. (Okay, maybe you would, but you probably shouldn’t.)
Also, stop saying lol. Not typing it. Stop saying it out loud. If you’re saying it, you’re not doing it.
[Author’s note: Daily Post challenge this week is flash fiction, so I’m putting it up on my other blog tomorrow.]
- Emoticons Turn 30: A Brief History (abcnews.go.com)
- Women more likely to use emoticons in text messages (ibnlive.in.com)
- The digital emoticon turns 30 🙂 (siliconrepublic.com)
- Emoticon Creator Declares Beef with Emojis: ‘I Think They Are Ugly’ (betabeat.com)
- The Evolution Of The Emoticon (theatlanticwire.com)
- Happy 30th Birthday Emoticon : – ) (freshnessmag.com)
- New Emoticons for Windows Phone 8 (wpcentral.com)
- Facebook Updates: Now With Emoticons (mashable.com)
- Facebook Adds Emoticons To Comments [Updates] (makeuseof.com)
I used to think that emoticons were a cop-out especially for those of us who let our zingers do the talking. But I think sometmes nothing will do but to put on a smiley face. 🙂
Plus, have you noticed that despite the thousands more that you can choose from the smiley face is the most popular? Say cheese 🙂
Well, they are convenient. I guess my main beef is that they are overused and lose their impact. That, plus they are used in places where it’s inappropriate, such as business correspondence.
Sometimes emoticons do compensate for some parts of a message that don’t translate well into writing. Sarcasm can sometimes read meaner than intended. For me, I enjoy using this
I appreciate writers who try harder, though.
I like your blog!
Thanks for your comment. The piece is satire, hence the haughty tone. I don’t mean or expect the world to ban them. Some of them can be quite clever. I was mostly making fun of people who overuse them or use them at inappropriate times.